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Source: GS Virdi's personal blog When I c u around me , U make my heart skip a beat. I'd never thought that I'd ever feel like this, Feels as if some excitement is engulfing me. When I c u around me... Butterflies dance in my stomach, and I don't know how to control them. I want to look into ur eyes, and wish to see myself in them. I want u to be mine, with ur heart and mind both. When I c u around me... I want to feel that touch of ur hands, soft like cotton and warm like kiss. Ur eyes r just like two big pearls, I can drown in ur deep angel eyes. with u everywhere on my mind, I can't think anything except u. Storms of loneliness engulf me when Ure gone, Loneliness sickens me heart when u say good bye. When I c u around me.... U smile comforts my helpless heart, that heart which is torn by cruel world. Ur smile reveals a deep mystery in it, and colors my world as u bloom. When I c u around me.... the only thing I can c is U, I've lost myself bcoz now my is U. I...

I just felt like sharing all this, I'm in mood today :) Author: gsvirdi E-mail: - Date: 12/29/2010 10:30:45 AM Subject: Re: Falling In Love Quotes Message: Very nice quotes :) I would like to make a small correction in one of ur quotes here: "The worst thing a guy can do is; To make a girl Fall for him when he has no intention of loving her truly." It's really sad to see that Indian culture is almost dead in youngsters now-a-days, everybody talks of luv, they all know the definition of luv, but... but... but nobody wants to accept the fact that luv demands your: Unconditional affection, Attending responsibilities, and Being committed. Commitments now-a-day are like a bunch of words, guys will say it just to get close to a gal. Nobody can ever imagine that luv is not at all physical, everybody talks of luv, feelings, emotions of happiness and pain in luv... but they all forget that there are many couples who appear to be eternally happy just bcoz they are in luv. I...

Source: http://virdigs.wordpress.com We can fool all our emotions/feelings; provided if we can give a good reason for it. We all give some kinda reasons to fool our self and feel better about unpleasant things happening in our life. We can find a reason to luv, hate, be happy, feel sad, cry, laugh, smile, frown, etc and etc.... But the only emotion u can't fool is " Fear ", u can't remove the fear by just reminding urself with any reason. In a way the "Fear" is immune to reasoning, u can find 100s of reasons... and u can create another 100s of reasons... but u just can't reason the "Fear" away from u. Bcoz the fear originates from within our self... we can't handle it with the Reasoning. It is just the same thing as u can't cure ur fever (internal) using any ointment (external). Fear is only of two types: 1. Somebody else's fear, adopted by u. 2. Your own fear, fed nicely by u. In both cases the reason of bringing fear in ur heart/m...

Heya Friends, U must have said any one of these things recently: "My prayers remain unanswered", "God takes too long to answer prayers", "God does not listen to my prayers", "Why things don't happen as I wish"... I don't know about u but I... run away from the scene whenever somebody says these kinda negative things. While talking to my dear friend piyush here in office I just had this thought today, "God (the supernatural) created everything and is monitoring us all as we breathe in and breathe out. How is it possible that such a supernatural will delay in listening / answering to prayers of his children?" Please don't think that I had found the answer of the question above, I'm just trying to think by keeping myself in his shoes. I'm just feeling that let's suppose that we asked for something (in life), and let's say that u immediately got it too. Then how would the world have been in this situation? U'...

Difference between..... Having..... Self-Confidence & Over-Confidence is: A wise man had said: Living in a dream world....... is only for those.... who refuse to wake up to face the reality! Be careful about ur actions so that u can have a nice day ahead :)

Years ago, a farmer owned land along the Atlantic seacoast. He constantly advertised for hired hands. Most people were reluctant to work on farms along the Atlantic . They dreaded the awful storms that raged across the Atlantic , wreaking havoc on the buildings and crops. As the farmer interviewed applicants for the job, he received A steady stream of refusals. Finally, a short, thin man, well past middle age, approached the farmer. "Are u a good farm hand?" the farmer asked him. "Well, I can sleep when the wind blows," answered the little man. Although puzzled by this answer, the farmer, desperate for help, Hired him. The little man worked well around the farm, busy from dawn to dusk, and the farmer felt satisfied with the man's work. Then one night the wind howled loudly in from offshore. Jumping out of bed, the farmer grabbed a lantern and rushed next door to the hired hand's sleeping quarters. He shook the little man and yelled, "Get up! A storm is ...

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh. Aj Guru Gobind Singh Ji da Jyoti Jyot Divas hai, Aao assi saaren unhaan de darshaye marg te chalan di koshish kariyeee Today is the death anniversary of shri Guru Gobind singh ji, come let's try to continue walking on the path which this divine soul had shown to the humanity. [gallery]

Hindi: Jab tumko deikha, tab tumhe jaan-ney se darta tha, Jab tumko jaana, tab tumhe chahney se darta tha, Jab tumko chaaha, tab tumhe piyar karney se darta tha, Abb jab mai tumko piyar karta hu... Tumko khonay se darta hu. English: When I saw you, I was afraid to know you, When I knew you, I was afraid to like you, When I liked you, I was afraid to Love you, Now that I Love you, I'm afraid to lose you...

"The minute I heard my first love story... I started looking for you, not knowing how false that story was." "Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They were in each other's heart all along." "Love is what makes two people sit in the middle of a bench when there is plenty of room at both ends" "The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life." "There is no feeling more comforting and consoling than knowing you are right next to the one you love." "If I could be anything in the world I would want to be a teardrop because I would be born in your eyes, live on...

This is mind blowing..... Summer is the season which brings lots of beautiful things along with it, but the problem of ants is inevitable too. Apart from unhealthy conditions created by the mess of ants, I don't think people can see the trails of ants roaming around in their house. At least I can't see them roaming in my house. I strongly believe in no-violence but I'm forced to use insecticide on ants. Somewhere on the internet I saw this mind blowing idea, and I luv'd the logic behind it.... Take baking soda and Icing sugar. Mix two equal portions of baking soda and icing sugar together in a dry container. Sprinkle this mixture where the anthill or their trail is. Ants cannot resist the icing sugar mix, and they will quickly take the mixture away. Now for the kicker..... Ants do not have the ability to expel gas; so the gas created by the baking soda will make them blow up and they'll die. Good Lord... All my senses are blown-up tooo..... if anybody of u would lik...

When love touches me, I speak in silence "I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you."

I won't change myself for u, unless u r willing to change urself for me. If u're willing to change, then I'm ready to initiate that change for u. Lately I had an interesting conversation with one of my dear friend in office, he was feeling a bit low and maybe that's why he said: "Dada, this life had become so much fast that people have forgotten our Indian values, ethics, respect for others, and most importantly... people had forgotten how to luv." I could feel that pain and disappointment in his words, the feeling of getting hurt was so clear in everything he said. I understood the fact that... no matter what I know, no matter what's my level of experience in life, no matter what I say to him at that moment.... nothing is gonna help him. I was just quiet and kept listening, at that moment I did my duty of being a good listening ear to my friend. But few doubts crept into my head, and they all remained till the conversation finished: "Why do we change...

Gud News.... Friends I'm able to compile the "BEST" of points on HOW TO IMPROVE our life These points are based on my personal experience... Personality: 1. Don't compare ur life with other's. U have no idea what their journey was all about. 2. Don't keep/carry negative thoughts about situations u can't control. Instead invest ur energy in the positive moments of "Present". 3. Don't over do; keep within ur limits. 4. Don't take urself so seriously; no one else does. 5. Don't waste ur precious energy in gossip. 6. Dream more while u are awake, this way u'll not forget ur important dreams. 7. Envy is a waste of time. U already have all u need. 8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind ur partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin ur "present's" happiness. 9. Life is too short to waste time hating any1. Don't hate people. 10. Make peace with ur past so that it won't spoil ur present. 11. No one...

Meri khushi bhi tu, meri ruswaaie tu, Meri insaniyat tu, meri khuda-e bhi tu, Tu he meri mehfilein, meri tanhaie bhi tu, Jis jagah tu nahi, waha kay sannatey mein tu, Dil dooba rehta hai tere khayalon mein har-su... Na jaaney kab unsey mulaqat karwaiga eh-khuda tu.

Tough times & struggles are storms in life, When people face strong winds in their life.... Few of them make walls around them, Few of them make shelters for themself, but few fools like me make lots of windmills. Struggles are to polish us, I don't know about u... but at lease I never complain when I know that the outcome of this struggle will transform me into something much better "than" what I am right now. :) I do understand that it's human nature to complain about the pains we face in life. The sad thought comes to our mind without any such intention of thinking sadly. But... but.... but... I can bet that we all have that strength to control our mouth, and so everybody can stop complaining about struggles they face. There's nothing wrong in complaining about unwelcome struggles in life, but it is completely possible to stop saying out the complaints we have due to tough times. I'm +33yrs now, and only after crossing this much time in my life I'm ...

There are mainly 5 Hurdles that everyone must overcome in order to get the best of their life, they are: 1. Money, 2. Ego, 3. Time, 4. Distance, and 5. Fear.

While talking to one of my dear friend in my office, I just had this thought. This guy is not a old time friend, he’s my colleague but now we’re friends! As I was listening to his unhappiness faced in life, I got this thought. What’s common in Sin & Faith? U can stop reading and close ur eyes to think the answer... Otherwise I’m gonna tell u. A common thing in Sin & Faith is the single alphabet ‘I’ standing in the heart of both words. As I realized the depth of that answer given by my heart… I was silently surprised. Let’s talk about what I think of this heart (I). Sin:: U will find ‘I’ in the heart of sin, and this I will make u do a lot of things which eventually bring the other two characters (S and N) together. Before u can ever realize the outcome, the ‘I’ in the heart… would have already made u complete the word “Sin”. With that u also acquire the basic qualification of being called as Sinner :). Either now u can ask for forgiveness and pledge that u will try ur best to n...

Today I just feel like talking about a single word “Respect”. In my lifespan I had seen a very big and unavoidably very important role of this word. U may ignore to give respect in life, but u can’t ignore the ‘after effects’ of ignoring (or giving) the respect. I can say that: Everybody had fallen in luv at least once in life. Leaving exceptions, those who close their heart and life (won’t comment on the reason; could be something too personal); there is no place of luv in their life. So let’s just have a look on the pattern with which we luv a person… If we see closely, then we always fall in luv after getting attracted to a person. We get attracted bcoz the person possesses something which mysteriously had made a huge impact on us. In other words: When u luv someone, u respect him or her for being “the person” that they really are, not the person that u want them to be. After falling in luv, u may want to make some changes in ur partner’s behavior, thoughts, actions, attitude, lifes...

I was so very impressed to see a beautiful article (on Guru Arjan Dev) posted by my wife on her blog Ganappa . I can tell u a lot about Guru Arjan Dev, but I would prefer u to read the original blog. She wrote it beautifully, and here is what I want u to do in ur life to get the blessings..... The reason I was impressed is that she came to knew about this Sikh Guru named "Arjan Dev" a few weeks back only, and she did all kinda research on the net to know more about him. In spite of  being from a different background she took such a deep interest in Guru Arjan Dev's history that she dug up all possible information. The adorable name given to the title of the blog is Forbear, forgive: Guru Arjan Dev and this was the Exact message he gave to this world. By quietly accepting all the torture done by mughals on him, the guru gave the message that the one who accepts to bear the torture is much more stronger then the one who is torturing. The bearer is much more stronger to for...

I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather prefer that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze; than it should be stifled by dry rot. I would rather be a superb meteor but temporary with every atom of me in a magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. As I strongly believe that the proper function of man is to live, not just exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time to best, in a way it(time) really deserves. Wasting time = Wasting ur life. :)

Herbert Spencer coined the phrase, "survival of the fittest." Herbert Spencer (who coined the term) and Charles Darwin. Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survival_of_the_fittest I’m nowhere concerned/connected with ecological study, but the reason I’m still using the term “Survival of the Fittest” (SoF) is that I was made aware of this term by a colleague of mine in the office just few days back. Man… our life is based on SoF!! was his words, and I was totally shocked. Bcoz what I knew about this term was that SoF was used to describe the evolution theory for species (animals) and their way of natural selection of evolution. But how the hell this term became applicable from animals to Human beings of 21st century? After talking to many of my friends I realize that due to the fast pace (our lifestyle), people had started believing that the life is competition. I tried to place my belief that competition maybe applicable for work/office, but I found that people (Less then 4...

Socrates came upon an acquaintance that ran up to him excitedly and said, “Do you know what I just heard about one of your students?” “Just a minute,” Socrates replied. “Before you tell me I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Test of Three . “ The first test is Truth . Are you sure that what you will say is true? “Oh no,” the man said, “Actually I just heard about it.” “So you don’t really know if it’s true, Socrates said. Now let’s try the second test, the test of Goodness . Is what you are about to tell me about my student something good?” “No, on the contrary..” “So,” Socrates interrupted, “you want to tell me something bad about him even though you’re not certain it’s true?” The man shrugged, rather embarrassed. Socrates continued. “You may still pass though, because there is a third test, the filter of Usefulness . Is what you want to tell me about my student going to be useful to me at all?” “Well it ..no, not really..” “Well, concluded Socates, “ If what you want ...

I don’t know what are you expecting from this title, let’s guess what I’m gonna talk about here? Will I talk about correct ways of praying? Difference between Right and Wrong kind of prayers? Give some lecture about Praying? Remind you about the importance of Prayers? I’m not planning to do anything like that, I myself is bored of lectures. I strongly believe that there’s nothing like wrong way of praying, then why did I selected a title like “Praying correctly”?? In fact I’m having something else on my head at the moment; I’m planning to connect this situation with practical life. Like everybody else, u also must have faced lots of struggles, u get tired of them, u said a prayer Oh lord, gimme a good life, and ur faith hopes that the prayer reaches the god, u wait for the prayer to get answered, u wait and wait, and as the patience weakens the faith; u start believing that god is not listening to ur prayers. U feel ignored and lonely, sadness embraces u to the point of suffocation. No...

Thou seest many stars at night in the sky, but findest them not when the sun rises. Canst thou say that there are no stars, then, in the heaven of day? So, O man, because thou beholdest not the Almighty in the days of thy ignorance, say not that there is no God. - Sri Ramakrishna Read those lines again, word-by-word, aren’t they having deep meaning? Yes! We know they are deep thoughts; full of love. You must be feeling a bit surprised the way I am feeling right now, the word “Ignorance” is not expected from the kind mouth of a great soul like Sri Ramakrishna. We all will agree that this word is full of negativity, then why such a blessed soul used this word? Before talking about anything else I would like to think first about the reason why Sri Ramakrishna used such a negative word. I believe it’s the anger which might have made appear that this word is best and most appropriate word to be used at that time when he said those enlightened thoughts. Leaving all things behind,...