Thursday, March 21, 2019

10 signs she likes you (Part 4of4)

10 Signs that she likes you (4 of 4)

A warm hello to everybody from India, It's 02.28am of 21st March 2019. Weather here is turning hotter, its 23 Deg C now.

Today with this 4th and last part of this series we are suppose to know about the last 10 Signs of how to tell that if she loves you or is simply attracted to you.

You can refer to the 1st part here.  points 01 to 10
You can refer to the 2nd part here. points 11 to 20
Let's start discussion on these points a little bit more so that we can eliminate confussions. I wonder if I need to repeat the same thing, but let me just say it again... An Indian girl will not think about sex in the first meeting, so don't ruin ur relationship before it can even start.

Continuing with next 10 signs that she likes u more than a casual friend:-
  1. She is waiting for ur calls, she wants u to keep talking even if there’s nothing new to talk,
  2. She does not shy to touch u, make sure to notice her shy-smile before u conclude anything silly,
  3. She feels gud when u touch her,
  4. If possible then take notice of her pupils of eye, pupils dilate when we see our luv’d ones,
  5. If she readjusts her hairs, or reapply her makeup/perfume/lipstick after meeting u
Frank Girls/Women:-
  1. Instead of u… She calls/message u and say she had a nice/wonderful time with u,
  2. She openly/freely compliments u about ur handsome appearance,
  3. She laughs a lot and her pitch becomes higher with laughs,
  4. She is ready to leave the party/bar and is willing to go out (someplace else) with u,
  5. Last…. She removes clothes in front of u and waits for u to take-on from there. 
Again I'd say that only if u guys have some time to read more and want to make sure that u have understood these points... then continue reading some briefing of above points.


She is waiting for ur calls, she wants u to keep talking even if there’s nothing new to talk

I have already talked about the importance of communication between you two, so its hopefully much more understood that she will like to talk to you more and more. Talking is the most common sense with which we humans and understand about the other person. Talking also is a clear indication of ow much the other person is ready to pay attention to you. so she will never miss such opportunities to come closer to you and know more about you. Keep your humor and classy attitude in the front. Bcoz if you r not able to impress her and make a good impression then you will have to work a lot more than required. Remember this is not a bussiness, this is a lifelong deal called love.


She does not shy to touch u, make sure to notice her shy-smile before u conclude anything silly,

Please note that in this point the word "Touch"means a lot different that what boys/guys know about. A touch for a girl means a touch, but that simple looking touch contains few meanings too. If she is touching you then she will NOT be rubbing herself with u just like the boys imagine it to be done as. Now the touch differs from girl to girl, some may just touch as softly as u know. Others might touch you u for a fair notisable about to get your attension, whereas extrovert kind of girls can really go bit far in their varity of touch. 1111By the way this generation of girls love to party & drink till they passout, but any sort of touch in this situation DOES NOT and SHALL NOT be considered as anything. she is just not in her senses, so guys the simple word touch is not a joke for girls. U r bound to get mistaken and ruine ur fresh relationship unless u r honest in ur heart.


She feels gud when u touch her,

Point above says She is touching u, so in that situation she can touch a little, a longer, softly, strongly or anything she likes... But here we r talking about the situation where u r touching her without asking her permission. There are many such times when we don't take permissions all the time, so this is the time when u have to be very very careful in ur physical actions. She has a much much bigger walls than u, her private space is truely private so ur simple & extremly casual touch can flair her. Be very careful when u r near her physically. Do not insult her feelings, bcoz she's the 1 who loves u much moe other people.Wherever the ituation arises or u feel like... remember to touch her softly and for a short time, don't let ur physical hunger jump out on her. Always look at her as a beautiful gift of love, and always touch her with respect first.... if she does not object to it... then only think anything else. But if she objects or resists ur touch.... then step back like a man. Don't let ur actions become the reason of ur disgrased manliness.


If possible then take notice of her pupils of eye, pupils dilate when we see our luv’d ones,

This is an extreamly fine observation, I'm not sure if any guy will ever have this much patience and observation times/power. It's a fact that when we see our loved ones then our pupils dilate and our lips will always get a slight smile, in some cases the smile might be a big or huge one. Learning to read that mysterious language of eyes is as important as remembering dates of all events in ur relationship. If u pay attention then u can literally see happiness, sadness, questionmark, surprise and even calmness in eyes... but as I said... its a mysterious language which is so beautiful that u can literally keep learning and practising all your life. Learn to identify reactions in her eyes, unless u identify her happines... u will be just playing a fluet in front of a wall. So be honest to ur relationship and pay attention on ur girl, remember she is there bcoz of u and ur lovable image she have in her heart/mind.


If she readjusts her hairs, or reapply her makeup/perfume/lipstick after meeting u,

Yes we have already talked about these signs in part 1 (I think) bcoz these r very basic of signs which any human will always give, but here we r talking in a different situation. This is the time when u two r not more strangers, u have already started meeting/dating. Continuing doing above mentioned things means she is now making sure that she looks good, if she is smiling and happy while doing these things then it's perfectly okie bcoz she wants to look pretty to ur eyes. But in case if u find that she is not happy while readjusting her hairs, or if she reapply her makeup/perfume/lipstick after meeting u then it could also mean that she was sad bcoz something made her had an impression that she was not looking beautiful so u (guy) did not paid that much attention on her, maybe the lack of compliments can also make her feel sad/disappointed. Gettign ready before meeting is a natural for couples, but after the meeting if she appears to get ready then it could be that she is NOW ready to welcome other's eyes on her (nstead of ur's) So as I said earlier that b very careful in reading her, her actions, and her reactions.


Instead of u… She calls/message u and say she had a nice/wonderful time with u,

It's very natural for a happy person to call or send a message telling the other person that they had a good time together. This point is when u did not call or message her after meeting... but instead she is taking the lead and is calling u or messaging u to tell that she had a nice time together. This kind of behaviour is an obvious hint that she liked u and is now thinking about moving ahead in ur relationship. But don't just start jumping, u have to make sure that this call/message was not a curtesy, she is just not being a good girl, she is just not planning to break ur heart/expectations from the meeting. So go out again and then notice her actions and body language. Keep urself composed and stay a gentleman, if everything goes fine then she herself will take the lead in love.


She openly/freely compliments u about ur handsome appearance,

If u met a extrovert girl who is very outgoing then u can expect such openly inviting actions. In this modern society girls love to behave just like men, coz somewhere or someone told them that this is the latest trend. So it may happen that u might not have done anything, but instead she felt good about u and she straight away approached u and complimented u. Best thing about this is that the girl had taken a lead so even if  people r listening around... they will not blame u for anything. But this does not means that u should respect that girl any lesser than all other females.


She laughs a lot and her pitch becomes higher with laughs,

Such extrovert girls tend to move around in an outgoing group of people, so they tend to become loud as they don't care about anybody around. They tend to appear bolder towards the society, they tend to break social impressions bcoz that's the latest trend/fashion to do so, again here u to need to spend time with her and try to understand her. Outgoing girls can be fun and on the same time they can be very challenging partners too.


She is ready to leave the party/bar and is willing to go out (someplace else) with u,

Party.... so let's assume that u r in a party and u met a girl, here we r talking about outgoing girls so u went to her and said hello, anter few more minutes of talking and sharing jokes u asked her out.... Let's go out, somewhere quieter than this! Now if she agrees than yes it means that she is interested in u, but again her interest should not be taken as her weakness or any sort of public invitation to invade her personal space.

She removes clothes in front of u and waits for u to take-on from there.

This is obviously and exreame case if u two r very new in relationship, or u two have just had few hello-hi type of meetings. But yes this can surely happen if u two had already spend good amount of time with eachother and she is at present in a place where society is not there to question or point towards her physical desires. Now is the time when I will not be saying anything except.... Just do it yaar.


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Today I'd been typing-correcting-typing from past 1 hr 07 minutes, as today last 4 points talked about exrovert girls so it was a bit easy to not bound outselves while we r with her. I will again say that U guys should not misunderstand a beautiful golden heart girl and do stupid things to lose her. I'll say this again for the last time that if the girl/woman is from a good family.... then u don't need to check compatibility. Go ahead and make ur reationship beautiful and strong.
Anybody can use this information in any way they like, any guy or girl can use this information to pretend and cheat others.... but I sincerely request u to please please use it to find ur special someone and love them honestly. 


Use things as u like, but never use people.

Sunday, March 17, 2019

10 signs she likes you (Part 3of4)

10 Signs that she likes you (3 of 4)

A warm hello to everybody from India, It's 02.01am of 17th March 2019. Weather here is turning hotter, its 18 Deg C now. Two unknown guys hit the street dog few minutes back, they ran off & dog is not visible too. I'm feeling very angry on those two bastrds, but as I've planned to write 3rd part of this post so I'm going to do my job now.

Today with this 3rd part of post we are suppose to know about the next 10 Signs of how to tell that she loves you or is attracted to you.

You can refer to the 1st part here. points 1 to 10
You can refer to the 2nd part here. points 11 to 20

Let's start talking about these points a little bit more so that we can eliminate confussions. Before we start I want u to clearly understand that a Indian girl will not think about sex in the first meeting, so don't ruin ur relationship before it can even start.

We continue with next 10 signs that she likes u more than infatuation:-
  1. She talks in a soft voice with u, she won't shout in public places,
  2. She mirrors u, she do as u do,
  3. She takes on some of ur habits,
  4. She accepts ur not so impressive actions too,
  5. She allows u to sit/stay physically close to her,
  6. She makes efforts to spend time with u,
  7. She initiates conversations,
  8. She invites u ove for spending time together,
  9. She sits close to u; physically,
  10. She dresses herself up for u,
If u guys have some time to read more and want to make sure that u have understood these points... then continue reading some briefing of above points. I'll write 1 paragraph for each point mentioned above.


She talks in a soft voice with u,

How much close friend u r to a person of opposite sex can be seen with the way they talk to eachother. Whenever it comes to our loved ones.... u will never see anybody shouting at them and calling it as expression of love. So yes this is the hint, if the girl talks to u normally, but nicely & softly... then its very clear that u are not a stranger to her. U will agree that even guys will talk sofly in such situations, moreover a girl's voice will b much more soft. Even if she's extremly excited or happy... she won't shout and talk in public places. If u see a girl jumping and talking loudly... it means she can b a bubbly girl, it also means that u r just another friend to her, if she likes u more than a friend then she will treate u like that. No drama.


She mirrors u, she do as u do

It's human nature to start immitating those whom we like, we do things just like them. This is the reason wise people reminds us that Our kids will do things just like those we do in front of them. Same goes with a grownup in love too, we tend to like even strangest of actions, we start liking that newer accent, those hand gestures, that way of smiling or laughing, the way u talk and walk, seeing eachother secretly from the world around, girls also tend to match colors of cloths u had worn. So remember to always watch ur actions and behaviour, and u will not b able to watch all the time unless u r honest in ur actions. Never do anything which might make her feel bad/embarassed in front of her friends. On the same time always remember to have 1 special signature move/action which clearly defines u from rest of the world..... and if u see her doing that move... she likes u... go ahead and talk to her like a gentleman.


She takes on some of ur habits

Habits r nothing but those actions which we keep repeating again and again in life. There r good habits and bad habits, but everybody have their unique habit. For example mine is to drink a mouthful of water, even before I eat a piece of meal. Result of it was that my better half got into a habit of bringing water alongwith the food. As teenagers and young people in our twenties we all tend to have many habits and make few new habits along-in the journey, Girls may pick up ur cute habits very quickly, whereas it might also b possible that the girl is totally not that type which matches with ur habits. So 1 thing u can do foremost is to change ur bad habits into good habits. Make some creative and constructive habits in life, bcoz now is ur time to grow up... and few of these habits will remain in ur life forever.


She accepts ur "not so impressive" actions too

As we've already discussed about having good and bad habits (actions) so this topic is nothing new now. She might not say it openly in the starting, but it does not means that she had approved ur actions which she does not likes. Guys tend to start smoking, wearing their shirts out of pants, clumsy dressing sense, hairstyle is mostly rubbish (standing hairs). Yes it is true that she might praise that new style, but remeber that she have to face her friends too. So if there is something which will b used to tease her then sooner or later she will speakup about that action of ur's. Again I will say the same thing: Make new constructive and more creative habits for urself so that ur actions should never embarass u... or her.


She allows u to sit/stay physically close to her

This is one of the most clear and obvious sign that she likes u. Bcoz this world is not fair with females, even guys treate girls like an object of pleasure. Indian streets r full of dog-like men who will b staring at girls/women like hungry dogs ready to pounce on them. So its very clear that a girl will not allow any men/guy in her personal space. But...... if she had allowed u to come close and talk, sit and spend some time together then its not at all normal. She have trusted u and she is ready to let u step into her comfort zone, so guys be extremly careful and never do anything which will ever break her trust.
Trust is like a mirror, even a smallest crack in it will zero it's value.

She makes efforts to spend time with u

Honestly I have never spend real time dating, but I have spent ginormous amount of time online. Same way u might not b having lot of free and personal time to spend, but she will try her best to spend whatever time u have together. Its not like that she will callup to go on a date, this point basically means that whenever u two plan to meet.... then she will spend time with u instead of being on her phone. Usually guys will b extreamly hungry to meet in real so that they can have some good physical time together, even after knowing this fact the girl will try to come and spend time... means she likes u. Don't waste time in physical pleasures, spend this time to know eachother properly. Bcoz knowing eachother will only help u to always stay connected to eachother.


She initiates conversations

When it comes to a extrovert or outgoing kind of a girl/women... its totally normal for her to call/message u and start conversations. But all other girls who are more feminie in nature will be extremly happy to talk to u, they will send a message, a missed call, a forwarded joke or image r signs that she is asking for ur attention. U shud not be surprised if u get her (good morning) message early in the morning, not only morning.... if u r had not send any message to her for a long time then ur silence should make her uneasy and she will message/call u. This is called starting (initiating) conversation.


She invites u over for spending time together

Huge amount of girls r now going to other states to study/work, so there r lots of chances that they r living somewhere already. Extrovert and outgoing type of girls will not hessitate to come to ur place or call u over to their place.... other girls might call u to meet somewhere outside/public so that u two can spend some time together. My serious suggestion to all guys is that U should control ur animal desires to play with flesh. Believe me... she is watching over all ur actions, she is noting ur behaviour. At this stage u should concentrate on becoming her best friend... Once she is able to trust that u will not use her, then she will openly ask u to make the relationship serious.


She sits close to u; physically 

U might be confused that I have already covered this point, then y I'm writing it again? If u r confussed then u really did NOT paid attention, I'm disappointed. The clear difference is that in previous point she is allowing u to sit close, in this point she is coming and sitting close to u. Remember we r talking about the time when u two r just known people and u r trying to make sure she likes u. Even at this stage extrovert and outgoing girls will take lead and they themselves will come close to u and sit with u. Like u r in a party, get together, outing with class/batchmates... just give her a chance and see if she is ready to come close and sit with u. Remember to dress up like a guy from educated family, don't make other's feel that ur family is a group of clowns. always Dressup Properly.


She dresses herself up for u

Last but not the least of these points is the Time she is spending on u. Selecting a dress, a color, a style, a particular type of fashion.... it all involves lots of work, only a girl will know. So never ignore her dresses, we all obviously wants a compliment n should always compliment the other person's dress/hairs too. U will find her dressing into ur favourite colors, she will be happy to wear cloths of ur choice, if she is buying something she will ask ur opinion. U will feel such things foolish and useless, but control ur careless attitude and respect everything she is doing... bcoz she is doing it all for u.


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Today I'd been typing-correcting-typing from past 1 hr 25 minutes, I took more time today bcoz of that disturbing incident, I wish if those two bastards who hit the dog could get punished. Anyways.....
I will again say that U guys should not misunderstand a beautiful golden heart girl and do stupid things to lose her. I'll say this again that if the girl/woman is from a good family than u don't need to check compatibility. Go ahead and make ur reationship beautiful and strong.
Anybody can use this information in any way they like, any guy or girl can use this information to pretend and cheat others.... but I sincerely request u to please please use it to find ur special 1 & love them honestly. 

Use things as u like, but never use people.

Wednesday, March 13, 2019

10 signs she likes you (Part 2of4)

10 Signs which tells she likes you (2 of 4)

A warm hello to everybody from India, It's 03.04am of 13th March 2019. Weather here is  pleasant with 16 Deg C. Again in calm & pleasant weather I've planned to write 2nd part of this post of luv. Let's continue talking about those secret hints she gives.

Before other things I AGAIN repeat that Girl / Woman / Lady.... is the best creation of god, I can assure u that without her we men/guys would have ruined this earth 10,000 years back.

Today with this 2nd part of post we are suppose to know about the next 10 Signs of how to tell is she loves or is attracted to you. You can refer to the 1st part of this post here.


I'll try to explain these points also a little bit more so that I can eliminate confussions. Before we start I want u to again clearly understand that a Indian girl will not think about sex so don't ruine ur relationship before it can even start.

For points 1 to 10 Refer Part 1

We continue with next 10 signs that she likes u more than infatuation:-
  1. She is always casting smiles at u,
  2. She talks about u with her friends (behind ur back),
  3. She opens up with u about her personal life,
  4. She takes interest n talks about ur personal life and family,
  5. She readily adds u in her social IDs, She shares her number,
  6. She talks about her personal/physical/hygienic things too,
  7. She blushes in front of u, her cheeks turn pink,
  8. She fiddles her feet more than u think is normal, She will cross her feet,
  9. U r the first person she talks/messages, She starts the conversation here,
  10. She makes herself available to u,
If u guys have some time to read more and want to make sure that u have understood these points... then continue reading this briefing of above points. I'll write 1 paragraph for each point mentioned above.


She is always casting smiles at u

Its natural that whenever we look at our loved ones then we always smile with happiness. But we all understand that THIS is not that case, so smile in this case will be different that other usual times. Always when u find her smiling at you then its not just a coincedence. Its very much possible that she's making a story in head with u two are having good time together. But before concluing anything you should make sure that she is smiling intentionally at you.


She talks about u with her friends (behind ur back)

It's natural for all of us to talk about our thoughts/beliefswith out close friends, but we al know that our friends will tease us about romance so almost all of us always keep our love secret from the world. But when u find that she is talking about you with her friends... then its not a simple thing, bcoz a girl will not just talk about her fairy love story bcoz its very much expected that her friends will make fun of you two... or worst... some other girl becomes jealous about this relationship and try to break it before it can start.


She opens up with u about her personal life

Both the points above are those situations where you two have still not started dating eachother. But this point is when you two starts talking to eachother and start spending some time with eachother. She wil be very happy to share about what she herself likes/dislikes. But when she starts sharing her family details with you then it means that she is allowing you to know about her inner most comfortable zone. Family is an area which we all tend to keep safe and clean so that nobody ever causes any problem for our family.


She takes interest n talks about ur personal life and family

Okie let's assume that she is not so conservative girl so thats the reason she didn't cared a lot about sharing her family details. Let's assume that she played a role of gud friend by ansering your question bout her family. But..... if she asks about YOUR family... that's not a formality. We can always tell her half and stop, if she is interested she will obviously ask us to keep talking and tell more. This obviously is a time when she wants to know about ur family so that she can become a part of ur inner most comfortable zone too. Everybody likes those relative who luv them back, n by this she is getting to know YOUR loved ones so that she can give her respect and attention to everything which u you love.


She readily adds u in her social IDs, She shares her number

Adding in social IDs is nothing special, anybody can add and just not reply to u. Same thing goes with the personal number too, its their wish if they want to attend your call later on in life. So what's special about this point is that if.... She asks first, then its self evident thing. But if u had asked n she is replying then what u should see is her body language. If she is happily sharing her personal details then you need not worry about ur relationship. But if you can makeup her fake smile (or worst: she is not smiling at all) then this situation needs another trial so that it gets confirmed that she is interested or she is just trying to make things work for the time being.


She talks about her personal/physical/hygienic things too

A guy admiring a girl's physical appearance is 1 thing, but when a girl can be free enough to talk about her inner/personal things like lingerie or personal hygiene things then its not just a simple formal friendship. Agree or don't... but this is the time when the couple have given themselves to eachother and talking about all these things is nothing different bcoz she feels you r close enuf to share all this. This is the trust level thing, such things r only shared with those whom we r 100% sure that they will not make fun of our situation, neither they will tell our personal things to others who r not the part of ur extremely close family.


She blushes in front of u, her cheeks turn pink

When it comes to a extrovert, confident, or outgoing kind of a women... we can't expect her to show these feminine traits. But for all other girls which are more feminie in nature will always can be seen blushing in presence of their loved man/guy. This again is a stage when a girl and the guy are not too much close... they r still in the process of becoming friends. Blushing always happens when the other person realizes that you have got a hint of that story when they were just planing/thinking. Always make her blush, you will b able to see another beautiful face of ur girl... believe me its beautiful.


She fiddles her feet more than u think is normal, She will cross her feet

Coming back to the time when you two have decided to take ur relationship to the next level, so you two decided to meet and know eachother better. Now as u two r already sitting together then its obvious u two r talking something interesting, coz nobody wants to make a boring impression on their date. You may not have said anything upsetting or heavy on emotions, but u still find her fiddling her feet, or playing with her fingers/hairs then be assured that its high time for u to come close to her heart rather than being formal by trying to impress her physically. If she looks not so comfortably sitting then it's ur job to make her feel safe and comfortable... Anybody will feel nervous in only two situations: 1 when they r in danger, or 2. when they r in a pressure to make a very good impression. It's possible that this is the time when she is sure that whatever impression she is making is not at alll enuf for her. Maeke her feel comfortable by talking to simpler things, worst part of many guys is their braging abot body/physic, fashion, new watch/cloths etc. Make her feel happy to talk to u, so look her into her eyes and give all ur attention to her.


U r the first person she talks/messages, She starts the conversation here 

I do understand that how can we know that she really messaged u 1st.... maybe she had forwarded that message to 10 more people? I agree we may never find it out unless we keep a vigil (which is rubbish). Love is a matter of faith and trust on eachother, so just trust her and give her words some respect. She will tell you or you can understand that if u r the 1st person or not. Its not like that she is doing a favour to u by contacting u as soon as she wakes up, but what she had done now is such a new thing that she has to share it with you, also bcoz you two are now the best n closest friends to her.


She makes herself available to u 

Last but not the least of these points is the Time you give to eachther. Now if u had called n she is doing something at time.... but she stops her work and she talks to u is what I call making herself available. Skipping a class, skipping a party n going out with u, ditching friend's party and watching that silly movie with u is yes.... Love. Giving a quality time to her is one of the best thing you can do for your relatiosnhip. I assure you that there are many many relationships which die a sad death only bcoz one of the partner STOPPPED communicating. Guys, this next line which I'm going to tell you might not look important at all to you at this minute, but believe me that this same line will seems so much true after 10 to 15 years from now. So friends just remember 1 thing that: There is nothing more important in this world than that girl who loves u.


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Today I'd been typing-correcting-typing from past 1 hr 27 minutes, I did took more time this time bcoz there were few things which required to be rephrased. They just seem to be comlicated to understand, so I rewrote them using simpler examples. I will agiain say that U guys should not misunderstand a beautiful golden heart girl and hastily go for breakups. I'll say this again that if the girl/woman is from a good family than u don't need to check compatibility. Go ahead and make ur reationship beautiful.
Anybody can use this information in any way they like, but I sincerely request u to please please use it to find & give love to somebody special.

Use things as u like, but please never use people.